You have something on your mind that’s been bothering you, and you don’t know what you should do about it...
So you ask for everyone else’s opinion, and just want someone to make the decision for you.
NO my love! I want you to feel confident in your own decision making!
So let me start by saying this...
It might sound simple, but you’re confused about what
you want, because you’re not allowing yourself the space to actually think about it.
Let me explain...
We are busyyyyy people, and we have endless lists of things we ‘have’ to do, and are surrounded by so much noise. Whether it’s family, work, technology, our own ticking minds...
There are TOO MANY influences, and TOO MANY distractions!
No wonder you don’t know what to do!
Sometimes the noise is so loud, that when something comes up that requires us to make a decision. We are soo confused about what it is we want.
And ultimately, everyoneeee has an opinion on what they think we ‘should’ do. And we are so swayed by what society tells us is ‘normal’.
Here are some really simple, effective ways you can start empowering yourself to make your own decisions....
Allow yourself time to think and process, without any distractions.
Journal on it! Write down all your thoughts and feelings. Don’t block yourself, just write! And then when you feel done getting all your thoughts down, read through it and see if you can find your decision.
Write out a pros and cons list.
Unless it’s neccesary, try not to talk to people about it, to avoid being influenced. Tell people when you’ve made your decision.
If you do want to talk it through, ask someone to listen and support, rather than give an opinion.
The more you start doing this, the easier it will become for you to feel confident in your decision making!
Try it out, see how you get on, and let me know if it worked for you!
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